A real head count for the big pop
Balloons, cake, confetti cannons, sparklers: the reveal only works if you know how many people are coming. RSVPs track themselves on one live dashboard, so you order for the right crowd and never guess.
Gender Reveal Invitations
Gender reveal invitations, without spoiling the surprise
A playful online invitation for every guest, with RSVP head counts and a team pink or team blue guess so everyone arrives ready for the big reveal.
A gender reveal is one perfect moment, and the whole point is that nobody sees it coming. Create your invitation, add your guests, and hit send by email, or share the link over WhatsApp, then watch every yes and every playful guess gather on one live dashboard. You get a clean head count for the cake, the balloons and the big pop, and the reveal stays a secret until you say so.
Made for gender reveals
Everything a gender reveal needs, from the first invitation to the final head count.
Team pink or team blue, before the reveal
Add a custom guess question and let every guest call it early. The friendly rivalry builds all week, you see the tally roll in, and nobody's prediction spoils the actual answer, which only you know.
Pick the day everyone can make it
The reveal is a one-time moment, so the date has to land. Send a date poll, let guests vote on the times that work, and lock in the afternoon that gathers the most people around the cake.
The secret stays yours
Send reminders as the day nears and message the whole guest list at once if plans shift. Because the answer lives only in your invitation and dashboard, there's no group thread where a slip could give the surprise away.
Popular gender reveal designs
Favorite gender reveal designs lean playful and bright: soft pinks and blues, question-mark motifs, balloons and confetti, with a little suspense built into the layout. They feel like a party that's keeping a happy secret, cheerful without giving a single thing away.
Your gender reveal guest list stays private
With HeyVite, each guest opens an invitation of their own, addressed to them alone. Who said yes, who sent regrets, who else is invited: only you, the host, hold the full picture.
See how guest privacy worksEverything a gender reveal asks of you, handled
Everything you need to host a gender reveal with ease.
Know exactly who's coming
Every reply, meal and headcount on one live dashboard as it arrives.
Ask whatever you need to know
Add your own questions to the RSVP and see every answer.
Keep your guest list yours
No shared list and no name lookup. No one sees who else was invited.
Pick a date everyone can make
Propose a few dates and let guests mark which ones work.
Gather the last few replies
One tap sends a reminder to everyone who hasn't replied yet.
Frequently asked questions
Answers about gender reveal invitations and online RSVP on HeyVite.
How do I send gender reveal invitations online?
Create your invitation, add your guests, and send it by email, or share a private link yourself. Guests need no app or account. Every reply and every team pink or team blue guess tracks itself on one live dashboard, so you always know your head count.
Can guests guess the gender before the reveal?
Yes. Add a custom guess question to your invitation and each guest picks team pink or team blue when they RSVP. You watch the tally build on your dashboard, and because only you hold the real answer, the guessing never spoils the actual reveal.
Is the gender reveal guest list private?
Yes. Every guest receives a private invitation of their own, and with Guest Privacy, included on every plan (free ones too), there is no public guest list and no name search by default. Each guest sees only their own invitation, so the surprise and your guest list both stay yours.
Will guests accidentally find out the gender?
No. The reveal answer lives only in your invitation and your private dashboard, never in a shared group thread or public page. Guests see the party details and place their guess, but the real answer stays with you until the moment you choose to share it.
How do I pick a date everyone can attend?
Send a date poll with a few options and let guests vote on the times that work for them. The results gather on your dashboard, so you lock in the day that brings the most people together around the cake for the reveal.
Is it free to send gender reveal invitations?
Yes. You can design and send invitations and track RSVPs for free, with no credit card, and Guest Privacy is included on every plan, free ones too. Paid plans are a single payment for a single event: $15, $45 or $110, and all they add is a bigger guest list. Every design is included on every plan.
Plan your gender reveal down to the wording
Copy-ready wording and etiquette guides to help you send with confidence.
Ready when you are
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