A formal online invitation for every guest, with a separate RSVP for the service and the celebration and a co-host so both parents plan together.
A bar or bat mitzvah marks a milestone years in the making, and the invitation should carry that weight with grace. HeyVite gives you elegant, formal designs, a private link for every guest, and one live dashboard for RSVPs, meal choices and head counts, with sub-events (different parts of your event, such as a ceremony and a reception) so the service and the party each collect their own reply. Add a co-host so both parents share the planning, and only you ever see the guest list.
Everything a bar & bat mitzvah needs, from the first invitation to the final head count.
Many families host two gatherings: the synagogue service and the reception that follows. With sub-events you group both under one invitation and collect a separate reply for each, so you know exactly who is coming to which and can plan seating and catering with confidence.
Guests record their meal choice, dietary notes and plus-ones when they RSVP, and every reply gathers per guest on one live dashboard. When the caterer or venue asks for final numbers, a glance gives you the answer. No spreadsheet, and reminders take care of the follow-up.
Add a co-host so both parents, or a family member helping out, can add guests, watch replies arrive and share the RSVP dashboard, all from the same live view, without forwarding screenshots or sharing a password.
Family, classmates and friends each open their own invitation through a private invitation of their own. With Guest Privacy, included on every plan (free ones too), there is no shared guest list and no name search, so the celebration stays yours to manage.
Favorite bar and bat mitzvah designs lean formal and keepsake-worthy (clean modern type, gilded borders and refined botanicals), celebratory without being solemn, and just as fitting for the service card as for the party invitation.
With HeyVite, each guest opens an invitation of their own, addressed to them alone. Who said yes, who sent regrets, who else is invited: only you, the host, hold the full picture.
See how guest privacy worksEverything you need to host a bar & bat mitzvah with ease.
Every reply, meal and headcount on one live dashboard as it arrives.
No shared list and no name lookup. No one sees who else was invited.
Group several gatherings under one event, each with its own RSVP.
Add your own questions to the RSVP and see every answer.
Invite a partner or planner to help manage guests and replies.
Answers about bar & bat mitzvah invitations and online RSVP on HeyVite.
Copy-ready wording and etiquette guides to help you send with confidence.
Browse the designs your guests will keep, or see exactly what each plan includes.
Free up to 75 guests per eventNo card needed14-day refund
